Sunday, July 17, 2016

German Fairy Tale Route

Friday July 15
Today Joe took a half day from work and we drove to Germany to meet up with Joe's family on the northern portion of the German Fairy Tale route (Märchenstrasse). What should have been a 4 hour drive to Hannover, turned into a 5.5 hour drive. At least Brooklyn took a nap and Caleb only needed to stop and breastfeed once and slept the rest of the time.
We met up with the family at a Vietnamese restaurant in Hannover. 
Then we drove out to our Airbnb country "mansion" cabin in Wedemark, Germany area. 










There were enough beds to sleep 10 in 3 rooms. There was a toy room in the attic, but the ladder situation was a little nerve wracking with little Brooklyn.
We put Brooklyn down to bed and gave Caleb a bath before bed.
After baths, Emily holding Caleb
The German Fairy tale route follows the Brothers Grimm through the country where they collected legends and saga which they published in their famous fairy-tale book, The Brothers Grimm’s Children’s and Household Tales. The German Fairy Tale Route stretches 375 miles winding through a landscape of picturesque villages, fortified castles, and sinister forests as it follows the footsteps of the Brothers Grimm.
The Lee family visited Hanau and Kassel, the capital along the German Fairy tale route where the Brothers Grimm lived.
The neighboring town of Hofgeismar is the birthplace of the fairy-tale Sleeping Beauty. 

Saturday July 16
Today's agenda was to go see Hamelin (1hr south), have lunch and then head down to Sleeping Beauty Castle (1.5hr further south). You can take a tour to Sababurg, or Sleeping Beauty Castle, and the ruin of Schöneberg Castle with the legends of giants, or listen to fairy-tale readings in the vaulted town hall cellar. We knew the castle was far south and we might have to call it quits before getting there with our little ones trying to nap in the Liang car, but hoped to get the Lee's to that destination.
Zachary holding Caleb 
Xiao Lee holding Caleb 
First stop, Hamelin (Hameln, Deutschland). We parked in a parking garage beneath a shopping mall. 
Hamelin is known for the tale of the Pied Piper of Hamelin, made popular by the Brothers Grimm. In the 13th century of medieval time, a piper dressed in multicolered ("pied") clothing who was also claimed to be a rat-catcher was hired by the town of Hamelin to lure the rats away with his magic pipe to drown in the Weser River. When the city refused to pay him for his service, he used the instrument's magical power on about 130 children and lured them away to a cave, never to be seen again. In one version of the story only 3 children remained, a lame one, a deaf one, and a blind one who told the adults the story. One version he led the kids away to a beautiful land (Transylvania). One version the kids drown in the river like the rats. Another he returned the children to their parents for a payment. My silver-lining favorite version of the story says that the Pied Piper saved Hamelin by driving the rats away who carried the plague. 
Besides Hameln being the site of this legendary story, the old part of the city is quite genuine and charming with its lovingly restored half-timbered and stone houses in Weser Renaissance style. 
Jackie got Caleb loaded into the Moby wrap in a position where he could nurse. 
Jackie nursing Caleb in front of Market Church St. Nicolai (Marktkirche St. Nicolai) & Hochzeitshaus in Hamelin. No first time mom modesty. 
The Hochzeitshaus, Marktkirche St. Nicolai (Market Church St. Nicolai) Glockenspiel which plays the story of the Pied Piper of Hamelin.  

Dempterhaus of 1607, Hamelin 
You can follow the Rat Trail with thousands of rats marking your way through the towns' walkways and alleys, leading you to all historical and architectural highlights.
Hamelin 





Leisthaus from 1589, Hamelin
Statue of Rattenfaenger von Hameln (Pied Piper of Hamelin) 

Pied Piper House (1602)
We walked an outdoor market and then ate lunch in the Pied Piper House.
Caleb napping on Daddy at lunch at Rattenfängerhaus in the Pied Piper House 
Caleb's first international outing to join Joe's family on the German Fairy tale route #calebdai #germanfairytaleroute #hameln #piedpiper #ratkiller 
After lunch, we let the GPS guide us to the Sleeping Beauty Castle address. There were several road detour signs that we missed along the way. Much of the road south along the Weser River seemed to be closed for construction. After nearly a hour of driving somewhere south of Polle, we became stuck in a long line of cars waiting to take the ferry across the river. Caleb was screaming at this point. Brooklyn had hardly napped. We called it quits, still at least 1 hour away from Dornroschenschloss Sababurg (Sleeping Beauty Castle)
We stopped in Polle, the region where Cinderella lived. Fortunately for us, we were there in the afternoon and the stony castle ruins set high atop the hill were open. 
Daddy & Brooklyn walking up to Burg Polle, Cinderella and Prince of Polle's castle 
The view from Polle Castle 

Joe sitting atop Polle Castle
Polle Castle from the 13th century, Cinderella's Castle



Avery and Zachary playing with Brooklyn at Polle Castle 
The small town of Polle is also believed to be the area where the Grimms' fairy-tale Puss in Boots is originated.
Next we pulled off in Bodenwerder, because we saw a sign for the Fairy Tale Route on the side of the road.
Bodenwerder is the birthplace and residence of Baron von Münchhausen. German writer Rudolf Erich Raspe based his 1785 book loosely based on the real life baron who would tell outrageous tall tales from his military career in the Russo-Turkish War. The fictional stories include him riding a cannonball, fighting a 40 foot crocodile and travelling to the moon. 
Münchhausen statues and fountains in Bodenwerder depicting some of his epic tales 

We walked the main street of Bodenwerder. 
We sat down for some ice cream in Bodenwerder 
Mama and baby boy selfie for a milk snack for all in Bodenwerder (breastmilk for Caleb and ice cream for everyone else) 
Bodenwerder 

Next in Bodenwerder we walked down by the Weser River.
Daddy with Caleb along the Weser River in Bodenwerder 
Zachary pushing Emily and Brooklyn together in the stroller in Bodenwerder 
More statues in Bodenwerder depicting Münchhausen epic tales
When we got back up to Große Str., we couldn't keep the kids from jumping into the Münchhausen statue fountain in Bodenwerder 

Playing in the water fountain with cousin Emily #dutchbrooklyn #germanfairytaleroute #bodenwerder 
Video of the excitement of Brooklyn and her cousins playing in the water at the Münchhausen sculptures in Bodenwerder, Germany on the German Fairy Tale Route 
It may be a fake ice cream cone, but that won't stop Brooklyn from trying to have a lick!

We had dinner back at our Airbnb home. 
Cousin Avery holding Caleb 
Cousin Emily holding Caleb 


Sunday July 17
Today's destination was Bremen, Germany. We would continue home from Bremen to Eindhoven after lunch while the Lee family would visit Hannover.
How the Liang family car rolls on vacation. 
Bremen is a port city in the north-west of Germany, also on the Weser River, on the northern portion of the German Fairy Tale Route. It is home to the world-famous Town Musicians, the 4 animals from another fairy-tale of the Brothers Grimm. The Bremen Town Musicians is about a talking donkey, dog, cat and chicken.
Bremen Town Hall (covered in scaffolding) 

Bremen Chamber of Commerce on Bermer Marktplatz 

Zachary in front of Bremen Chamber of Commerce on Bermer Marktplatz 
Bremer Marktplatz
Zachary, Avery, Emily & Brooklyn in Bremer Marktplatz
Next we walked down Böttcherstrasse in Bremen. It is a historic street, famous for its unusual architecture in an expressionist style, many with beautiful brickwork from the 1920s & early 30s.
Böttcherstrasse in Bremen








Town Musicians monumment in Böttcherstrasse alley in Bremen 
We walked along the Weser River for a bit.
Stadtwaage, beautiful building in Bremen which used to house the municipal weighing scales

The bronze sculpture of the Bremen Town Musicians, the rooster, on the cat, on the dog, on the donkey. 
The kids in front of the bronze landmark sculpture on the side of Bremen Town Hall 
There was a large bronze group of pig sculpture with shepherd and shepherd dog called, Hirt mit Schweinen at the end of Sögestraße. In the Middle Ages, the pigs were driven by the "Saustraße", today's Sögestraße.
The kids climbing on Hirt mit Schweinen 

Daddy and Brooklyn on Hirt mit Schweinen 


Windmills are not just in the Netherlands. Am Wall Windmill (Herdentorswallmühle or Mühle am Wall) from 1898 is set in a city park along where the wall fortifications once stood and a previous windmill stood. 
We ate lunch at Miku, a Chinese restaurant near the Bremen train station.
Avery holding Caleb at lunch in Bremen

After lunch we began our drive home to Eindhoven. We stopped on the drive at McDonalds to feed Caleb.
On the drive home after Brooklyn woke up from her nap, she requested to sing "Row, row, row your boat". Both Mommy and Daddy. We had a medley going for a long time but all Brooklyn would contribute was "row row row", the only words she ever sings. 
The Lee's explored Hannover after lunch before they departed for Amsterdam. Xiao Lee was flying back to Pittsburgh to go back to work. Mon Ping and the 3 kids will be staying longer with us for a few more weeks in the Netherlands. 

Monday, June 20, 2016

Caleb Birth Story

So Caleb's Birth Story...that's definitely is a STORY. They say labor goes quicker with your second child and Jackie can definitely attest to that. Brooklyn's labor took 10-11 hours so they said Jackie's second would be around 5-6 hours most likely. Due to this we were to call the midwife as soon as the contractions reached 5 minutes apart and not until they were 5 minutes apart for an entire hour. 

Brooklyn was born 3 days after her due date. Jackie began to see signs of labor the day before the due date when she lost her mucus plug. Jackie was experiencing a lot of water retention and bloating. Jackie was very uncomfortable and ready to finally see their baby girl. With Brooklyn 20 months earlier from present day, Jackie had contractions start the day after the due date that got as close to 6 minutes apart but they slowed down and were erratic around 15 minutes apart for the next night and throughout the day. She tried to rest but it was difficult. Around midnight going into the day Brooklyn was born, real labor began. 

Jackie's parents arrived in Amsterdam Sunday morning around 8:30am. Joe picked them up from the airport. We went to bed Sunday night sometime between 10 and 11. Joe was off to work in the morning since it was Monday and Jackie was trying to think of a fun indoor activity we could do with Brooklyn and her grandparents without a car on the rainy Monday. Around midnight Jackie woke up with a lot of pressure to pee like she does most nights over the last few weeks of the pregnancy. 30 minutes later she had that feeling again. 30 minutes later again. Mmm that's different. Soon she was waking up every 20 minutes and then closer the pressure started happening every 15 minutes and she could no longer sleep in between. Around 4am she started really timing the contractions starting at 9 minutes apart. By 5am Jackie let Joe know her contractions were 7 minutes apart. He got up to take a shower since it was looking like go time soon. While we waited for them to become 5 minutes apart so we could call the midwife, Joe turned on the replay broadcast of Game 7 of the NBA Championship Finals where the Cleveland Cavaliers finally won and knocked down last year's Champs, Golden State.

8:25am Jackie called with a 5 minute contraction time. The midwife on call was busy with another birth so she had to call in someone on their day off. Since she had slower 7-10 minute contractions before that she suggested Jackie take a bath to see if labor would truly progress. Jackie was nice and relaxed in the tub. Joe asked if she had been timing contractions. She said no because they felt further apart and less painful. She told Joe how many she had since getting in and they ended up being 5-6 minutes apart. By 9am the contractions were real strong and close. At 9:04 they called the midwife again to say labor seems to be progressing and they should come check on us soon.
Around 9:10, Jackie's water broke in the bathtub and that's when it became real! She quickly stood up mid-contraction. At 9:14 Joe called the midwife to the urgent news. Contractions were now very intense and 2 minutes apart. Joe helped Jackie waddle to the toilet. She was in too much pain to truly dress herself. She got on a nursing camisole and pulled her hair back. Joe helped her to bed to wait on the midwife to check her even though she could feel intense pressure like she felt when she was at least 8cm dilated with Brooklyn.
The midwife arrived within about 10 minutes. Leni, the midwife, does a check and says Jackie is 10cm dilated. She starts prepping things on the bed to get ready. No time to head to the hospital as we had previously planned. Joe does ask and gets a very telling look from Leni that yes we will be staying here and having a home birth!
Around 9:30, Jackie began pushing. It was obvious she was scared to push hard and deliver the baby. Joe helped coach her to hold her breath while she pushed. Leni bluntly told her to push threw the burning sensation as the head crowns and hold it there in between contractions. Jackie pushed for 25 minutes and he was out at 9:55! He was already crying before his full body had made it out.

At 10am Jackie delivered the placenta. Her bloodloss was 100cc, which is way better than the 800cc she lost with Brooklyn. Jackie stayed overnight in the hospital because her body went into shakes when she tried to walk with help to the bathroom. Jackie had a second degree episiotomy with Brooklyn. Jackie had a minor tear in the same location this time that required 2 stitches after delivery this time. 
Meanwhile downstairs Jackie's parents had taken Brooklyn to the park to play while we called the midwife and took a bath. After the midwife arrived, they saw Joe run downstairs for our to go bag with our paperwork, etc so they just thought we were preparing to leave for the hospital as we had previously planned. Grandma was shocked and excited when they heard his baby cries upstairs!

Midwife on call was busy with another labor which apparently only happens a few times a year. So it was an unplanned home birth, but we are extremely happy with the whole experience. It all went so quick.It used to be 60% of births in the Netherlands happened at home. Today the statistics at our midwife's practice is closer to 20% opt for a home birth or have a fast delivery like in our case where it is necessary. We always knew home birth was a possibility, but we were more open to the idea after having one child already. We still wanted a hospital birth in case something went wrong. With the way Jackie's labor was with Brooklyn, we knew if she needed that extra care, we were already there.
It was really nice to know Brooklyn was downstairs with Jackie's parents playing just fine with no clue her baby brother was about to be born. Jackie had horrible visions of her hearing mommy scream in agony or having traumatizing visions of blood everywhere or something. It was great to already be home and get to sleep in our own comfortable bed & shower right away. It was a way more relaxing, intimate, & natural birth experience. It still feels surreal.
Brooklyn meeting Caleb, our new addition to the Liang Family, as of 25 minutes ago!
Happy mom and big sister
Kisses
Happy mommy

A little behind the meaning of our name choice. With Brooklyn the name had a lot of significance for us. Joe proposed marriage in the middle of the Brooklyn Bridge in 2006. The origin of the name for the area called Brooklyn is after a Dutch town, Breukelen, just south of Amsterdam. (Much of New York has Dutch town name origins: New Amsterdam, Haarlem, Rotterdam, etc). We loved that our daughter, born in the Netherlands, would have Dutch ties to her name. We always had a hard time with boy names. We never had a backup picked out in case they were wrong and Brooklyn turned out to be a boy. We both agreed we like the name Caleb about halfway through the pregnancy. We would call Jackie's belly by name to see if it fit, seemed appropriate, etc. Well around 8 months pregnant, Brooklyn knew to point to Jackie's belly when we asked her where the baby was. Now if we asked her where Caleb was, she pointed to my belly! Looks like the name has stuck! Caleb it is. We had always agreed that with a boy, we would have his middle name be Joe's father's last name, Dai. Brooklyn's middle name, Grace has Christian meaning. Caleb means follower; faithful, devotion, whole hearted, bold, brave.  In the Old Testament, Caleb is a leader of the Israelites, one of those sent by Moses to scout out the land in the second year after the Exodus. He and Joshua were the only people over the age of twenty to enter the Promised Land.

Monday, June 13, 2016

Baby Bump #2

Positive Pregnancy Test!
If you want to see how the bump grew through Jackie's first pregnancy with Brooklyn in 2014:
December 28, 2015
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January 11, 2016
17 weeks
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39 weeks
June 20, 2016
Due Date

Composite of baby bump #2
For comparison to baby bump #1: a girl (carried high)

Saturday, June 4, 2016

Kinderdijk June 2016

Saturday June 4, 2016


Every year since we have lived in the Netherlands, we have made a trip to Kinderdijk in late Spring and the family photo differences are quite substantial. In June 2014, Jackie was 23 weeks pregnant with Brooklyn. In late April 2015 Jackie was carrying around 6 month old Brooklyn in a baby carrier. And now June 2016, Jackie is about to pop at 37 weeks with baby #2 and Brooklyn is 19 months old!

Happy girls at Kinderdijk

Baby brother kisses at Kinderdijk
Kiss
Sitting on her brother

Daddy Brooklyn kiss

Family photo op at Kinderdijk

#kinderdijk #windmills #wheredoesthetimego #annualphotos #dutchbrooklyn #madeinHolland